In the film, she plays Mafalda — the housekeeper of the Perlman villa, but also something much more than that. Warm, attentive, and deeply observant, Mafalda feels like a real member of the family. She looks after Elio with a mixture of care and concern, often noticing things his parents choose not to see. In her own way, she becomes a steady presence in the house, someone who watches, worries, and protects.
Many fans already know Vanda’s story. Some of you have met her in person while visiting the Italian filming locations, taking part in guided walks, or during the annual Peach gathering. Vanda is present there — approachable, engaged, and generous with her time.
I didn’t meet her that way. Our conversation took place in writing instead. This interview is for those who haven’t had the chance to meet her yet, and for anyone who knows Mafalda well, but is curious about the woman behind her.
Vanda Capriolo was born in Naples and now lives in Crema, where several iconic scenes of Call Me by Your Name were shot. Outside of acting, she is an animal rights activist and shares her life with her dog.
What’s important to know about you? Which significant events in your life would you mention?
Of course doing the film was a very important moment in my life. However, in my personal life I’m an animal rights activist and passionate about my friends and family. I consider myself a very lucky and blessed person.
As far as I know, this was your first film role and you came to it by chance. Can you tell me how you got the role?
There was an open casting in Crema, so I went. Much like Mafalda in the book, I’m originally from Naples, so my accent was perfect for the role.
Mafalda was cast pretty much on the spot.
Mafalda, the Perlman family’s observant housekeeper, ends up being one of the most unexpectedly foundational characters in Call Me by Your Name. Surprisingly, the casting of Vanda Capriolo ultimately came down to fate.
“We were looking for the place where Elio and Oliver go through with their bikes on their way to the first kiss, and I was in this field,” says Luca Guadagnino.
“And then I see this lady biking… she doesn’t care about this bunch of filmmakers.”
How did you prepare for the role?
Very simply. I did everything Luca told me to do. We had many rehearsals, and from the very first reading we all knew there was something special about Luca and how he was able to bring out the best in all of us.
Mafalda is kind, caring, and deeply concerned about the family. How similar are you to the character?
Mafalda’s job was to run the house and take care of the family like a well-oiled machine. I’m a lot more relaxed and easygoing than she is.
What instructions did Luca give you? How much freedom did you have in shaping the character?
Luca was very strict about a few details, but in general he let us explore our characters and was very open to our opinions and suggestions.
What was it like when the shooting ended?
Of course it was very emotional. After spending so much time together and creating a family, it’s not easy to say goodbye. We all felt we had created something special, but because it was a low-budget film, we weren’t expecting the success that followed.
Many actors talk about the atmosphere Luca created on set. What do you remember most?
Yes, that’s true. Luca created a wonderful atmosphere. My fondest memories are us all eating lunch together around the corner from the villa, sharing stories and laughing. The laughter is what I remember most.
What was your relationship like with the other actors?
We were a family, so we were very close and respectful of each other. Like in the film, my job was to take care of everyone. Especially Armie Hammer and Timothée Chalamet were very supportive and generous with their time and experiences.
What was it like seeing the finished film?
Of course I loved it. I was so impressed to see that our good feelings and care for each other were actually visible on screen. Luca is truly a genius.
Are you still in touch with the cast or crew?
Not so much now. Everyone has moved on, but they do send their friends and relatives to see the beautiful locations where we filmed. Through them, I still keep a bit in touch.
If there were a sequel, would you be in it?
I certainly hope so.
How has the film changed your everyday life?
The best part has been meeting the fans and hearing how the film changed their lives. I never get tired of hearing their stories. I’m so thankful that I was able to play a small part in something that affected so many people.
Do you have any upcoming film plans?
Luca put me in his film Suspiria. And I hope there will be other roles in the future.
How do you live your daily life today?
My life hasn’t changed that much. I go to work and spend time with my fantastic dog and my wonderful friends and family.
You seem to have a very close relationship with fans. Do you have a favourite experience?
I’m a very private person, but I don’t mind chatting on social media. I work closely with the Elio Oliver Love Tour, and through that we’ve seen incredible things happen — engagements, families reconnecting, people finding closure or making life-changing decisions.
It’s about love. The kind that happens once in a lifetime and changes you forever.